To be KIND and to be SYMPATHY.....BOTH DO NOT COME EASILY IN ANYONE'S mindset.
Do you think you could handle both without bias or favouritism?
Yeah I would rather agree to being different and to be brave enough to be myself. Why should I be pleasing someone just because somebody thought he/she is different and should be treated well by others!
Bull shit! Being so secretive in life is ok, but yet there are people on earth; wanted you to tell more about your business rather then sharing their views on work,on expectation, families life,hobbies, leisure, etc  but they never review what is on their side of their mind! No body care but please do not treat as if somebody has owe you a living that whatever the command altered out; somebody must obey and follow like sheep! Sometime is a pity that they never know  how much people know about things...yeah we just acting out of kindness and feeling sympathy toward this poor soul.